The weight on the bar keeps increasing. Every session, every week,
the numbers creep higher. You know this was the plan – 5 lbs at a
time, like clockwork – yet suddenly you find yourself doubting
whether you can even lift it off the pins, let alone squat it for
three sets of five.
The symptoms are
familiar:
- Anxious before
training. - No appetite.
- Doubting the
program. - Thinking your coach
is insane. - Toying with the
idea of switching goals. - Wondering if a
“subtle” cut would make sense right now.
Congratulations. You’ve
got a full-blown case of Intensity Day Jitters. Let’s be honest: we
all go through this. You sit there, staring at your logbook,
questioning whether today is the day the weight finally crushes you.
What if you fail? What if you don’t even want to show up? I get it,
I’ve been there.
And I can say this with absolute certainty: every big lift I’ve
ever done came with intensity day jitters. Every. Single. One. Of.
The. Damn. Things.
The key? How you
respond to fear.
Doing
the Program: You Knew This Was Coming
This isn’t a
surprise. This is exactly what we signed up for. From day one, we
made it clear – the bar weight increases every session. That’s
the entire point. The load on the bar is the main stressor that makes
you stronger. If this were easy, it would be called sitting.
We are lifting.
We never promised
comfort. We promised progress. And guess what? Progress isn’t
supposed to feel easy.
Why
Are You Anxious?
Before we talk about
how to deal with intensity day jitters, let’s break down why they
happen. If you’re naturally an anxious person who spirals over
everything, okay – maybe therapy is a better solution than changing
your squat programming. But if this anxiety suddenly shows up out of
nowhere after weeks or months of smooth progress, let’s look
deeper.
Here’s what I’ve
noticed over the years: lifters tend to get anxious when they haven’t
done their homework.
Common culprits:
- Poor sleep
- Not eating enough
- Nagging pain from
bad form - Extra stress from
work/life - Sneaky cardio
sessions (without telling your coach) - Not eating enough
(yeah, I said it again for a reason)
Most of the time,
people get nervous because they know they’ve cut corners somewhere.
And when the bar is loading up heavier than ever, it exposes that.
The solution? Fix your habits. Stop trying to out-think the program
and start following it properly.
Why
Being Nervous Is Actually a Good Thing
Nervousness means you
care. It means you give a damn about your training and want to
perform well. That’s a good thing. But it’s a fine line – too
much self-doubt will choke your performance before you even get under
the bar. That’s not where you want to be.
Instead, shift your
mindset:
- Nervous energy =
fuel - Fear = a sign this
matters to you - Pre-lift jitters =
your body preparing for battle
This energy can either
work for you or against you. Which one will you choose? When you
embrace it, fear forces you to level-up. You start taking your
recovery seriously, prioritizing nutrition, dialing in your
technique, because you know the bar isn’t going to lift itself.
That’s what separates the lifters who keep making progress from the
ones who stall out and then quit.
Respond
Positively to Fear
Easier said than done,
right? But here’s the reality: this entire program has been leading
you to this moment.
- You didn’t just
wake up and put 405lbs on your back for no reason. - You built up to
this, one session at a time. - You trained
properly, lifted with good form, recovered well, and stayed
consistent.
So what’s one more
step forward? Look back at your logbook. See the numbers you’ve
already conquered. Remind yourself of every weight you once feared
but now warm up with.
The goal isn’t just
hitting numbers – it’s becoming the person who does.
I was – and still am
– you. I’ve stared at the bar in disbelief when training partners
and coaches told me I could lift a weight I was certain was
impossible. I’ve been that same scared skinny little boy, running
from bullies, weighed down by self-doubt and convinced I wasn’t
good enough. And yet, here I stand today. Living proof that fear
isn’t a wall – it’s the engine revving at the edge of
transformation. To become fearless, you can’t tiptoe around it. You
have to dive headfirst into that fear, smash through the glass, and
emerge stronger on the other side.
Fight
Mode vs. Flight Mode
This is your body’s
fight-or-flight response kicking in. It’s your biological alarm
system saying, Hey, something big is about to happen.
Now, you have two
choices:
- Fight – Step
under the bar and grind through the reps. - Flight – Make
excuses, change your goals, and convince yourself, “It’s not
worth it.”
For the sake of your
training, and your long-term success, I pray you choose fight mode.
Because this is more than just lifting. This is character-building.
Stepping under a heavier bar than you’ve ever lifted and coming out
the other side victorious changes you. It teaches you how to focus
under pressure, overcome doubt, and deliver when it counts.
That’s not just a gym
skill. That’s a life skill.
When
the Rubber Meets the Road
This is where it
happens. This is where you prove what you’re made of. It doesn’t
matter if you squat 135lb or 405lb, at some point, every lifter
reaches a weight that scares them. But the strongest lifters lean
into that fear, not away from it:
- They don’t run.
- They don’t
goal-hop. - They don’t
suddenly decide it’s time to “lean out” when things get heavy.
Instead, they put in
the work, trust the process, and embrace the grind. Because at the
end of the day, this is what we signed up for. This is the system.
This is progress.
Turn
Jitters into Laser Focus
Your fear and anxiety
about intensity day are not weaknesses. They are signs that you are
leveling up. So turn that energy into laser focus:
- Eat right.
- Sleep enough.
- Recover properly.
- Stop
over-complicating things. - Step under the bar
and do what needs to be done.
The weight isn’t
going to move itself. It’s time to get under it and find out what
you’re made of. Show the world – and most importantly yourself –
that you are a somebody.
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